Week 44
Love Your Enemies
Matthew 5:43–48
“Love your enemies, bless those who curse you, do good to those who hate you, and pray for those who spitefully use you.”
Matthew 5:43–48 (NKJV)
Jesus does not leave love inside the circle of those who return it. He carries it across the boundary of hostility and commands what natural instinct resists: love your enemies.
Enemy-love does not call evil good, abandon wise boundaries, or prevent justice from doing its proper work. It refuses hatred the right to remake our hearts in the image of the injury.
The Father sends sun and rain upon the just and unjust. His common kindness becomes the pattern for children whose goodness is not controlled by another person’s deserving.
This love is not first an emotion we must manufacture. It becomes a chosen posture: refusing revenge, speaking without contempt, seeking an enemy’s true good, and placing judgment into God’s hands.
Prayer is where the command often begins. We may come with clenched feelings and honest pain, but it is difficult to keep another person reduced to a villain while repeatedly naming them before the Father.
At the cross, Jesus did more than teach enemy-love. He embodied it. While we were enemies, Christ died for us; while His tormentors acted, He prayed for their forgiveness.
Returning evil for evil multiplies its reach. Answering evil with good interrupts the inheritance of bitterness. Such love may not immediately change the enemy, but grace keeps the enemy from governing us.
Bring one difficult name before Christ this week. Ask not for sentimental affection, but for freedom from vengeance and grace to take one truthful, wise, and genuinely loving step.
A Voice from Charles Spurgeon
“The returning of evil for evil is natural ... but it is not, and never can be, natural to the new-created spirit.”
Spurgeon makes enemy-love evidence of God’s renewing life. Retaliation belongs to fallen instinct; gentleness and kindness reflect the Father who has created us anew.
We depend upon the Spirit because this love is beyond unaided resolve.
A Prayer
Lord Jesus,
Father of mercies, You loved me when I was far from You. Place the enemy-love of Jesus within my wounded and resistant heart.
Keep me truthful about evil and wise about boundaries, but release me from revenge, contempt, and the desire to see another destroyed.
Bless the person I struggle to bless. Show me the next good step, and overcome evil in me and around me with Your good. Amen.
Spend This Week with Christ
There is no hurry.
Return often to Matthew 5:43–48. Read it slowly, in the morning and again before sleep. Carry its words into the ordinary places of your week.
The purpose is not merely to finish the reading, but to behold Christ more clearly and walk with Him more closely.
